Loneliness

Loneliness or feeling lonely owing to emotional imbalance

Man is a social creature. Normally we experience loneliness for the first time when we are away from home, family and friends and are no longer supported by familiar surroundings. Adapting to a new environment makes people uncertain of what to do or how to behave and breeds insecurities which, may coupled with the lonely nature of job or work, can make for a real sense of isolation. For this reason, many people suffer from loneliness.

Loneliness is an emotional state of mind, which is often confused with depression. Loneliness need not cause serious health problems but can do so if overlooked. Homesickness, nostalgia and many other behavioral negativities may increase the feeling of loneliness. Loneliness can be so powerful that it may bring about a deep and persistent feeling of uselessness and rejection from society. It is often those who are more used to feeling lonely who deal best with the transitional period of leaving home. Please understand that being alone does not represent loneliness, on the contrary being alone can be very healthy. We all need to be alone from time to time. Some activities such thinking, reading and writing are often best done in lonely surroundings.

More people suffer from loneliness than you might think. Feelings of loneliness could impede overall progress. No matter your age or intelligence, loneliness wastes opportunities for friendship and can cause some individuals deep unbearable pain. Understanding the fundamental characteristics of loneliness enables us to identify it in ourselves as well as in others. 'Loneliness or feeling lonely' is something we all suffer from in varying degrees. Excessive loneliness or feeling lonely tendency in human nature may develop out of apprehension, uncertainty and even fear. Once it is identified; its effects can be reduced, obviously reducing the intensity of loneliness improves the quality of life.

Introversion, self-consciousness, shyness and difficulty in approaching people to initiate relationships are all clear signs of being lonely. Normally lonely people are ineffective at building relationships. They avoid communication because they think interaction may result in conflicts and conflicts or problems in a relationship mean that the relationship has 'failed' in some way. However this is not necessarily true, in fact healthy conflicts can make relationships stronger. Frequent Loneliness or feeling lonely tendency in nature can leave us with a sense of low self-esteem where one become self-conscious and feels that he has been rejected; it is very difficult to overcome. Lonely people tend to blame both themselves and others for their unhappiness. They may be reluctant to even try and take new responsibilities or take part in group-activities, and will also find it difficult to say 'no' to things, leaving you feeling exploited and weak. Lonely people are often self-centered and think only of themselves.

People normally prone to loneliness or feeling lonely negativity because they expect too much from friends and family. Many time their unrealistic expectations more than what they could reasonably expect from their relationships brings disillusionment, frustration and disappointment. Apart they often misinterpret their loneliness for depression. This may make them behave in a 'depressed' manner at all the time and make the situation much more serious. Lonely people found very hasty in taking major life decisions. Many lonely people suffer from an unnecessary sense of urgency and desperation about having to quickly establish a special confidant or partner.

Few of the major symptoms of loneliness feeling lonely symptom include:



Self-preoccupied with excessive work.



Dissatisfaction with social or family relationships.



Negative attitudes towards life.



Bitterness towards life



Self-condemnation tendency



Passing judgment on others



Shaming experiences



An inability to create, develop and maintain interpersonal relationships.



Poor emotional "fit"



Lack of self-motivation.



Public embarrassment for poor performance



Workholism



Lack of direction.



Genetic or Biological Influences



Least interest in activities of others.



Failure to initiate social contact



Lethargy.



Frequent sadness, loneliness or resentment



A feeling of emptiness and being very much alone.



A feeling that your intimate needs are not being met or, if they are, they seem unsatisfying.



Few or no friends



Bookworm or Excessive user of PC



Over-reacting to everyday events that you would generally take in your stride.



Feeling worthless, helpless, powerless, unacceptable, self-absorbed.



Passivity or pessimism



Feeling separated from other people.



Highly sensitive, when lacking adequate social support



Feeling bored, self-pitying, sad and sometimes depressed.



Excessive time spent on academic work or solitary professional activity to the exclusion of social interaction.



Feeling nervous and disoriented.



Low self-esteem and the feeling that there is no one with whom you can communicate openly, honestly, and intimately.
Loneliness or feeling lonely and Negative emotions co-relation.

Often the causes of "Loneliness or feeling lonely Tendency in behavior" are more mental than physical. A bad relationship, poor self image, a history of abuse, stress, frustration and many other factors can change your overall attitude towards life which may directly impede your overall performance. Such tendencies are deep-rooted in mind and nurtured by excessive Negative Emotions.

It is needless to mention that these negative emotions are tremendously powerful. They can debilitate lives extremely quick by causing disparity in energy system, which triggers a sequence of emotional imbalance (i.e. frustration, melancholia, persistent agony, mental instability, uncontrolled anger, inferiority complex etc.), which ultimately culminates in ill health.

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